Thomas William Ortale
Tom Ortale, our beloved brother—always a friend to strangers and “Uncle Tom” to many—passed away suddenly and peacefully at home on December 6, 2024 at the age of 83. Known for his outgoing personality, quick-witted humor, and generous heart, Tom was born to Albert and Helen Ortale in Des Moines, Iowa.
He attended St. John’s, where he proudly raised the flag each morning before Mass. After graduating from Dowling High School, his family moved to Santa Barbara to join relatives who had already settled there. Tom then attended USF in San Francisco.
Upon returning home, Tom worked in the family jewelry business at La Cumbre Plaza, forging countless lifelong friendships as he served his customers. After decades in the trade, he retired to a life of volunteerism—delivering meals for Meals on Wheels, as did his father before him, cooking chicken behind the BBQ pits at the Santa Barbara Mission during Il Madonnari, he became a fixture on the 4th of July at Manning Park patiently helping hundreds of families with a happy smile, and warm word. Tom loved making cappuccinos for parishioners at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church. Affectionately nicknamed “Cappuccino Tom,” a photo of him now adorns the church’s cappuccino machine!
Tom cherished his family and eagerly joined our large holiday gatherings. His zest for life, big smile, and contagious enthusiasm touched everyone around him. He will be greatly missed by all who loved him, and he will remain in our hearts with warm and loving memories.
Tom is survived by the love of his life, Carol Ortale; his brother, Richard (Stephanie) Ortale; his sister, Patty (Collison) Ortale; and many cousins, nephews, and nieces.
Tom’s faith in God was remarkable. He knew his Bible well and held a deep love for Jesus and the promise of eternal life.
Until we meet again in Heaven, Tom—
we love you and miss you with all our hearts.
A special thank you to cousins Teresa, Linda, Tom, Joe and Rick Lemus, and to nephew Brad Collison.
A celebration of life will be held at a time to be determined.