James “Jimmy” Phelan
With profound sadness, we announce the passing of James “Jimmy” Phelan—a devoted husband, father, brother, and friend—who left us on All Souls’ Day, November 2, 2024. Born and raised in Carlow, Ireland, Jimmy spent his childhood on the family farm in Ballymartin alongside his four siblings. The values and memories of those early years, surrounded by family and community, shaped him throughout his life.
Jimmy was a man of many talents– a graduate in construction engineering from Waterford Regional Technical College, a dedicated farmer, a skilled craftsman, and a voracious reader. He was a man of integrity, a gentle soul with a sharp wit and a generous heart, always eager to share a story, a laugh, or a helping hand.
In 1986, he embarked on a new journey with his beloved wife, Aine, as they moved to Santa Barbara with little more than a shared dream. Together, they built a life grounded in love and resilience, settling into the San Roque neighborhood and filling their home with the laughter of their three children: Carly, James, and Ruth. As a father, Jimmy was a steady and unwavering presence, passing on his wisdom, humor, and boundless support—qualities his children will carry forward. He was their strongest foundation, their steady hand.
A master craftsman, Jimmy founded a tile contracting business, pouring his passion and hard work into each project and into the community he served. Even after retiring in 2021, he continued to offer his skills to friends and neighbors, always willing to lend a hand or share a smile. In his later years, despite health challenges, he faced each obstacle with courage, resilience, and an enduring hope.
Jimmy leaves behind his cherished family, including his siblings Imelda, Ned, Mary, and the late Johnny, brother and sister-in-law, nephews, nieces, extended family, and countless friends and loved ones.
His kindness, humor, and generosity touched all who knew him, leaving a legacy of love and warmth. Though he is no longer with us, his spirit lives on in the lives he touched. Jimmy will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered. His funeral mass will be held on November 13th at 10:30 am at San Roque Church, followed by his inurnment at Calgary Cemetery.