This Saturday, the day before Mother’s Day proper, treat your mom to tea, music, and refreshments at a Mother’s Day Tea and Tour on the pavilion patio at area botanical paradise Lotusland (Cold Spring Rd., Montecito). Mums and their offspring will be free to explore the stunning gardens at the 37-acre property on their own as a family or take a docent-led tour. The event runs from 1:30-7:30 p.m. on Saturday, May 7; tickets are $65-$75 for adults and $20 for children ages 5-12. Reservations are required; call 969-9990 for more info.